How to be the most interesting woman you know

Hello, Gorgeous!

There was an online creator who was in a rut feeling bored with her life. 

She thought back to a time where her life was most exciting and her immediate thought was: university!

Here is how to be the most interesting woman you know

The point is to recreate & constantly relive the most interesting time of your life.

If you have not been to university because you were busy working and trying to survive–I will never hold this against you. God bless you for doing what you had to do to get by and you are absolutely in the right place if you want to turn things around. 

There is no judgement or shame here for this because it truly is a privilege, is time consuming and expensive if we are lucky enough to have this experience.

Why did she say university? 

Let us go back to this content creator because she said something that was extremely profound.

As an international student, she was in a different culture, made new friends, had a constant barrage of new things to learn with all these various subjects. Her world turned and opened her eyes to a new perspective. 

What made you sparkle?

Think back to the periods of your life where you were most fulfilled and thrilled to be there. It could be the simplest of events. 

It could have been a girls camp. Your first day at a school you really liked. An incredible job you always look back to. A time when you moved to a new city. A trip you took to a new land you never thought you could see. Going to church and meeting your best friend.

These are remarkably significant occasions you have to keep in mind. 

The reason why

I want you to recreate these memories for yourself in real time, because this is how you shine. 

You were probably learning something new you became fascinated with that started an entire career, hobby, or brought you to a place where you met so many new friends.

There are several periods in my life I can reflect on that brought me this amount of joy. 

A handful of the most recent memories for me were exceptionally dark times where I had to go deep within myself and create it from scratch. Purely from a fertile imagination. 

Mine is introspective. 

There were actually a couple of these periods where I was not working a 9 to 5 and had time to myself to manufacture a world that I could not get out of my head. I had to put them on the internet, share my ideas with friends that generated new experiences, or bring them to life on my own. 

Any time I had time to myself created a habit or sort of structure or routine that propelled me forward into rewards I never encountered before. 

Each time I wrote a blog for you, produced a campaign for a business project, or styled an outfit for myself. It was never about making new acquaintances or going out to try a new trendy place. 

It can be exhausting for me as an ambivert. I typically like to reserve my energy for girlfriends or my sweetheart. This means when I do go out, I like to discover a place with one of these exceedingly close people or on my own. Then share it with new people. 

Yours can be the opposite if you are a natural social butterfly who prefers to be surrounded by beautiful souls. 

It could even be things you never had and finally create the experience for yourself.

I knew a couple who wanted to take their children skiing. One parent wanted to take their children to try snow sports because they had the experience. The other parent wanted this for their little ones because they did not. 

When wanting the best for yourself, you are the only one who knows who you are and what your intentions are. Generate them on your own and find every excuse to do the thing you have always wanted to do. 

Use your free will at its maximum as long as you can. Craft as many adventures as possible. The opportunity is in your hands, so do not let anyone stop you.

Powering on your own makes you richer.

If you cannot find friends or family to do the things with you–venture on your own.

You learn the most when you are on your own.

On holiday trips, couples and friends fight about their different styles of seeing the world. One wants to travel to the city and experience the luxuries. Another wants to make their feet bleed to see and learn about ruins. AKA the other famous reason a location might be known for.

It has been studied that people who travel on their own actually tend to make more new friends, because when they are with loved ones they tend to stick with them and their internal worlds. They only have each other’s points of view to lean on. 

When I am with friends, I am easygoing because I am most likely there to spend time with them and following along. However, when I am alone visiting a new nail salon, restaurant, or gallery, I form my own thoughts on how I perceive the excursion without the shading of the other’s thoughts. 

Usually, I hardly agree. I love thinking for myself and having my own tastes.

It is okay to be different.

Walk your own walk.

You do not have to agree with everyone and everything to be liked. Not everyone has the same standards as you.

Not everyone in the room will be the same overdressed and overeducated as you.

True friends will stick by you and laugh at how they think you are odd. But then it will grow on them, because you love each other.

My dear friend noticed how I always wore heels and dresses. I observed how she always wore sharp jackets and stunning accessories. When she moved away, we rubbed off on each other and we made the statement of personally being influenced by each other’s style. 

Once we saw each other again we acknowledged this comment as a sign of respect and admiration. We essentially swapped closets. You never know how you will impact someone for purely being yourself. 

Never be bored for the rest of your life.

My strength and weakness is rebranding too much (and possibly too hard). I am unrecognisable by the hour constantly changing my style but keeping my values. 

This is terrible for a brand as you want Hello Kitty to remain recognisable as Hello Kitty. But keeping the values is what keeps you grounded and you will still have people who will buy Sanrio merchandise.

It is funny how the older I get the more staunch I am with my standards but the more open minded to conceding that the world can sometimes be right when it comes to trends. A broken clock is correct twice a day. So I stand by certain immovable decisions.

I get bored responding to people about the same hobbies I have repeatedly. It is time for a refresh!

Even Mother Nature gets bored. She spices it up with unpredictable seasons where the weather app says it will rain but she hits you with snow and winds.

Go with the flow of having new encounters with various parts of the world to keep your mind fresh. 

I love not only trying new things, but coming back to old worlds I built before. They are not abandoned. Only rebirthed with new breath. 

Currently, I am having quite the renaissance with reading, sharing outfits, and travel. This is because I want my goals to seem less far away, not miss a beat, and deliberately set aside reasons why my life would be fuller with these subjects.

She is going to do what she wants anyway with or without you. 

Only a few items are mentioned here, because this blog would be terribly long. But you cannot stop a woman with a mission. 

A nascent revelation is how my standards and vision have kept me constantly on the move. The trivial things will never matter when I have such bigger fish to fry.

A day not talking to a person who adds stress to my life is not going to change my mood to have a bad workday because I want to buy a cashmere coat (which I did). Or because I have flight school to save for and no man who asks me on a date will see me for a few weeks. 

Putting your dreams first and living a full life on your own will put matters into scope. There are priorities and supplementary pleasantries that might get in the way. 

Find what your long term goals are and work around them.

Make designated time everyday to be who you want to be.

This could look like setting aside an hour a day to 

• Read
• Deep clean your home
• Construct head-turning outfits with clothes you love to rewear
• Redecorate
• Maintain your car
• Plan a trip
• Create a moodboard
• Learn a language
• Discover history online (I’m currently obsessed with this channel and listening to it in the background for hours when I’m home doing other mindless things.)
• Build a little business
• Have a spa day at home
• Video call a loved one
• Execute a new recipe
• Wander a new grocery store
• Enter the art/book store you have been wanting to visit
• Walk around a delightful part of your town
• Driving to another mesmerising area
• Seeing the beach/mountains
• Study a subject you have
• Practise a new game 
• Look at lectures and classes you have been thinking about
• Plant something that grows 

It is all in the little things. YouTube is free. Google and ChatGPT are free. The world is too big to get bored and the universe has no budget. I will never stop repeating these mantras, because your brain is not small.

You are an It Girl and part of a club that will never let you forget it.

Never sell yourself short on the things you can do. 

I believe in you and so do all the other amazing women here. Become the most interesting woman to you and never stop. I like to think of it as, be the mum or grandma who has all the stories that make your kids want to try your same adventures too. 

You are an endless inspiration.

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