November Thoughts Before The Final Month Of The Year

Hello, Gorgeous!

I am walking on the moon as I type this from my cute little Los Angeles apartment. On paper I am an absolute mess, but in person I glow. Dare I say radiate?

This past month was remarkably terrible at the start, but the stars smiled upon me and said, ‘Your karma is turning around.’ 

I was trying to take an outfit video, but Adam was on the phone so I last minute included him. He kept trying to smile whilst I was trying to pose so we ended up with this haha.

Something that actually has been helping me through this roller coaster of life events (i.e., a health complication, two newborn additions to the family, a job loss, several job offers, and closing parts of my businesses, and more) is prayer. 

This is not to get on a soapbox or church-y at all. It is simply a mindset shift that made me view the world more positively. 

People have a tendency to get on their knees or prostrate when life is difficult. I have learnt to say thanks every moment to God when something good happens. I have been complimenting strangers on the street, in every building, and smiling larger than life itself. 

In other words, I recognised every moment to be grateful for and it has turned my life around a total 180 degrees. 

This change has put a fire underneath my feet to make me want to do more each day I have time off, make others laugh nonstop, and find even more reasons to make myself smile in the mirror. 

A health scare might do that to you. Get a new lease on life. New perspective. Value every detail and individual around you. Life is great and I cannot complain. 

30 Days Of Fabulosity

It did not start with this challenge, but it definitely was the start of when I noticed times began to evolve. 

Everyday, I showered an everything shower, did full glam skin, hair, makeup, nails, outfit, stilettos. It really made me see myself to have the spark that I thought I lost. 

My home is so clean and organised with all the inventory done. I got rid of all the paperwork and clothing I do not touch anymore. Decluttering made me feel so good. This included my bills, finances, and devices. 

This little challenge deserves an entire post. You need to try this. I want to do this 365 days a year!

How I Got A Flat Stomach In 7 Days And Kept It 

I also managed to lose weight and get back to my regular self feeling and looking lean and strong. The full story and depth of divulging can be visited here.

Taking A Break From Youtube Long Form Videos, But Doing More On Social Media

The end of the year is the most stressful time for creators and bloggers, so instead of doing my own content this year where I freak out trying to get you to watch my Vlogmas or Vlognnukah string of videos in December, I simply am helping others in my business.

I thought it would be marvelous to help my clients who are bloggers to really punch it out this year, stay consistent, and the stress is shifted to not me this year haha.

This does not mean I will be quitting YouTube or posting long form videos. It simply is a small break where I am routinely attending to other aspects of my life this year, and it feels great. Touching grass or getting fresh air is my goal at the end of the day and I am not living to post as I did in my previous phases.

Legal Things Should Take A Close

Currently, I have a lot on my plate with big girl responsibilities, but I feel better than ever. A chapter in my life that I never wanted is finally ending. 

I even made a list of affairs I need to get in order to seal 2025 with a bow and start 2026 strong. Adam and I already made plans to move steadily with haste toward our next steps. He seems to be over the gripes I have been making with our apartment now that I have made my peace with it haha. Funny how life works. 

Entering 2026 With Impetus 

There are so many big enhancements to look forward to that we do not know where to begin. What we do know is that we are prepared and want to get the ball rolling in December. This way we start off January with momentum rather than figuring details out on January 1, 2026. 

I made several business plans for various aspects of my life and how I want them to hopefully play out. Before I was so do or die about what will and will not work. Now, I am more go with the flow, forgiving, and peaceful in my intentions. 

I took a break from botox.

I’m actually starting to use Xeomin haha just kidding. I am so in love with my natural features ever since I got this new groove. Changes are beautiful and so is recognising my beautifully mixed heritage. When I look in the mirror now, I see my grandmother, my mother and father, my bloodlines, my DNA, my heart. 

Learning to love yourself is gives you a confidence like no other and everyone notices. 

I got asked out 7 times the other day. 

Adam kept asking me to go on a date all day long, went out himself driving around town only to come back and ask to take me on a date again. During the date, all we did was talk about our future plas together. Once he dropped me off home before going back out, he texted me about taking me on another date.🤭

I hope you find this kind of love. I hope you never want to leave each other’s side.

When you want to make things work, eventually things do work.

Next month, I will create an entire post on all the things I’ve learnt in 2025, goals, wins, and the next steps of 2026. That is going to be a F U L L one and I hope you are here for it as I am.

The month is not even over yet, but here I am going 100 mph as always.

God forbid a girl get a lil motion.

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